*How To Be A Better Couple*


*10 steps to enjoying each other better...*


*1. Be realistic about each other.*
*Don't try to turn ur partner into something he or she is not. Let's face it,guys-there's only 1 Pamela Anderson in the world, and even she has had herimplants removed! Give ur gal a break and understand that her physicalappearance is NOT going to change overnite with the help of a few facials ortreatments. And ladies, Brad Pitt has already been taken, so u're gonna haveto do with what ur guy is like! Chill out, love each other for what u are.There is more to ur partner than what meets the eye. *


*2. Always talk things out.*
*Now guys, I know this is not ur fave pastime or mode of resolving issues,but u know what? This works with the gals. Don't make assumptions about eachother's feelings. Learn to xpress urself better so that ur partnerundrstands what u're angry about, or hurt about, or even happy about! When ustop talking to each other from the heart, it's the beginning of the end. *


*3. Do stuff together.*
*Make an effort to do t hings together. Do some sports or involve urselves insome shared activities; something both of u enjoy or are interested in. Itcould be as simple as watching movies together, or jus strollinghand-in-hand down Orchard Road. Watch soccor with him once in a while thoughthe green patch on TV puts u to sleep in 3 seconds. And guys, do give in ifur gal asks for another day at window-shopping, rather than suggest that shego out with her girlfriends for "that sort of activities" instead. If u'respending more time with ur friends rather than with ur partner, it's awarning sign that u're drifting apart!!! *


*4. Meet each other halfway.*
*If he agrees to throw out that rotten T-shirt with the "The_Rock" print, ushouldn't kick up much of a fuss if he asks u to keep ur room tidy...There's gotta be a little giving and taking in a relationship, so learn tomeet each other halfway. *


*5.Show ur love*
*Buy her flowers or candy or perfume everynow and then, even if u have beentogether for 5years. It's wonderful to continue showing someone that u carefor him or her. Cook him a special meal, paint him a Valentine's Day card.Knit him mini-socks he can't wear ( like for decoration purposes => ), buyhim a packet of milk for breakfast, or pack his wardrobe for him...so heknows u can still be romantic and loving despite having been together forquite a while. *


*6. Respect each other.*
*Stop making jokes about her hair or skin, or whatever it is u love to laughat. Ask urself if she thinks if its funny. And if he has an inferioritycomplex about his height, stop ogling at tall guys and make him feel worse!Love is about respecting each other's feelings and being sensitive to eachother at all times. *


*7. Bury the past.*
*Stop bringing up the past. Gals..don't bring up the happy things about u andur ex to ur guy, it would jus make him jealous or unhappy. And guys, don'ttalk about the happy times that u had with ur ex or mention about her in urevery other sentence as it would make ur gal feel un-happy and she mightthink that u saying all this b'cos u are gonna get back with ur ex or notinterested in her anymore. *


*8. Sit on ur jealousy.*
*All of us go thru' spells of insecurity at the beginning of therelationship, but don't translate that insecurity into jealousy. If u'regonna go through ur partner's mail and cupboard, and eavesdropping onconversations, u know something is wrong - with u!!! Jealousy is like apoison that slowly spreads thru' the relationship before finall y killingit. Trust ur partner; love has to have trust in it. *


*9. Keep ur commitments to each other.*
*If ur partner is standing u up all the time and cancelling dates andbreaking promises, u need to talk! If u're in a relationship, make urpartner ur priority and don't disappoint them if u can help it. It's reallyterrible when someone promises to take u to dinner, and then calls to cancelit. Don't make promises u can't keep. If ur partner starts to feel thathe/she is not important enough to u, u may jus lose him/her. *


*10. Be honest.*
*Honesty is not scowling at how awful she looks first thing in the morning,or telling him that he has the biceps of a fly~! When we say "be honest", wemean expressing *ur feelings clearly, not being bitingly cruel. Whenu're hurt, say so, and when u're angry, tell him/her, w/o gettinghysterical. If u can't be honest with ur partner, who can u be honest with?� Love is also about honesty, and a relationship where no honesty existsprobably isn't worth it! *

Was feeling so dead bored in school after waking up from my sleep..Decide to go out to go shopping..haha..So asked Kai along..Went to Bugis to shop and also bought their presents and cake..Bought myself,bb and d shirts and kai bought himself jeans pants..Quite cheap though..Walk all around Bugis,the village,bugis junction and this fashion..After few hours of shopping,we went to Town to meet them..Supposed to meet izal,sham,yani and her fren but SOMEONE back out last minute..was quite frust..hmph!! YOU owe us something huh..hehe..Den walked around far east for awhile..


Here are sum of the scenarios..















First,lepaking while waiting 4 place in Sakura Cuisine and the birthday gurl......















The 2 boys looking at the menu in the restaurant, deciding on what to eat..Hmm...














Ok......The food is here..So wad shall we do now???? Yummy! *Kai's tummy grubling* *Gulp*
Waiting for prayers so that they can start eating....


The birthday gurl taking pic..So sweet rite..My sweet friend..hapi 19th bday gurl!!!

This is the Fried Wantan that Yani treat us!! Sedaaaappp.......

Sham: Hmm..the wantan sedap sey..Thks ehk yani..haha..So start eating after hearing the prayers..but the shop prayers startes late but we just eat cos our family members called us that we can eat oredy....So we eat and eat...........................................

Here we go...We wen outside KFC and celebrate their bdays! Shamsul and Izyani..the bufday babies!!! 2 candles for them to blow,red for Yani and blue for Sham!! haha..Yani holding the knife frem LJS! haha..budget..sori ehk..last minute decision la..Hope you guys like it..The chocolate cake!!!

This is the shirts we bought for them and inclusive of a skirt for yani!! make sure u wear them k gurl..haha! Confirm u will look even sweeter babe!! haha..Hope you guys like it..not much though...From Kai,Izal,and me .

After that,me,Kai,yani and sri went to play pool at Lucky Plaza! Had lotsa fun.....Thats all for today! Btw,Hapi bday again!!!! Hope you enjoy the day with us! here are the rest of the photos.....