# LIVING WITH IT! learning to acception! ;
Monday, December 03, 2007
torn into pieces, 10:54 PM

Hi Friend's,

Are You A Victim in Life?-----

'If only I had more time.'
'If only my husband could be more understanding.'
'If only my boss would die!'
'If only my son could be more motivated.'
'If only I could get better customers',

these are the common litany of excuses one would hear.

People who believe themselves to be victims say that the only wayfor their lives to change for the better is when other people getbetter, or if the business-social environment improves.
As long as you keep thinking that it is not your fault, thatsomething else must change, you will continue to feel helpless andpowerless.
By continuing to play the victim, you will be totally atthe mercy of your environment

Why do so many people Choose to be a Victim?

Time to time, we find ourselves unconsciously lapsing into victimmode till it leads to being an undesirable part of makeup
Do youhave friends and acquaintances who complain non-stop about theiremployers, colleagues, spouse, society at large, or the government?How about you?
Without any intention of being cold and heartless, the fact stays;as long as people convince themselves to be the victims ofcircumstance, they will never be able to take charge, learn fromtheir experiences, move on and change their lives for the better.

Why do we do this?
The simple reason being it makes us feel good!
By playing the victim, we get lots of sympathy, don't we?
At thesame time, we want to feel assured that we were in the right byjustifying our own actions.
Soon, complaining becomes therapeutic. After all the complaining,we actually feel relieved of an emotional burden.

Beneficial as it may seem, though playing the victim appears tohave lots of payoffs, the cost of doing so is high for as long aswe blame something or someone else, we rob ourselves of the powerto take charge, and change the situation.

Giving Excuses and Blaming Others Takes Power Away from You

The reality is that most people act in a way that puts others incharge of their life.
When something doesn't work in their life, they choose to giveexcuses, blame others and complain.
The problem with this is thatby doing so, you are putting others in control of your life. Youput yourself in the role of victim.

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